What do men want?

Thread Topic: What do men want?

Sahsasmith
Hurt, VA
Joined: Apr 30, 09
Status Level: 1
2009-04-30 06:58:50
I have been married for 6 years. Everything was alright for the first month but after that he changed. Every job he got he quit. He drinks more now then I have ever seen him. I just feel like nothing is ever good enough. I am not vein but I am pretty. But he still has to look at other women. That makes me feel awful. Yet when I look at another man he flips out. Being all jealous and stuff.I go to college at night, studying to be an accoutant. I come home after school I get accussed of sleeping. Im not. What should I do? Plaese help
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Sahsasmith
Hurt, VA
Joined: Apr 30, 09
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2009-04-30 07:00:13
That was suppose to say sleein around.
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Sahsasmith
Hurt, VA
Joined: Apr 30, 09
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2009-04-30 07:00:34
sleeping around
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Basketball Player
Atlanta, GA
Joined: Jul 2, 08
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2009-05-02 00:26:15
dump him and you will release all that stress you have
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arwen
Sugar Land, TX
Joined: Feb 24, 09
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2009-05-04 13:39:17
girl, that boy is just trouble. alcoholics are so selfish. they dont see the tornado that they make. im so sorry you have to deal with that girl. hit me up anytime and i can help you through it. i went through a similar situation. even if you dont leave him, you need to talk to someone...
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David25
Chester, VA
Joined: May 14, 09
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2009-05-14 19:53:54
when the time is right for you you will know what to do
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singingteacher
Brighton, TN
Joined: Apr 14, 09
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2009-05-14 20:34:56
Arwen has it right. Alcoholics are selfish. How long has he been drinking? That will determine if he is in stage one or two. If he is in two, only intervention and a treatment facility will help him. Give him an ultimatum: He gets help and stops drinking, or you leave permanently. You have to mean this or he will continually abuse you. As Arwen said, if you need anyone to talk to, leave me a line...
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TalentWasted
Tacoma, WA
Joined: May 4, 09
Status Level: 1
2009-05-15 02:28:24
I hate to suggest anyone splitting, but if you continue to take it might only get worse. which will not be good. he is the one with the issues not you. you need to do what is best for you. and if you feel you will be happier with out him then listen to your heart. if you choose to stay even though you want to leave, you wil only be hurting yourself.

it is only your choice to make what is best for you. and you have to listen to what you want to find out that answer.
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arwen
Sugar Land, TX
Joined: Feb 24, 09
Status Level: 2
2009-05-19 13:37:23
really, this is all great advice, but its not what you want to hear. i know the feeling. what you need to do is realize that yeah we may not know you, but its the same thing we'd tell our friends. i personally dated a drug addict, and he got me involved, and now im in recovery but it'll always be a temptation. it was bad. the only thing you can really do is get far far away from those kinds of people, even if you love them and all you wanted was for it to work out.
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jimmyy
Joined: Jul 18, 09
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2009-07-18 11:45:05
first off, all guys are jealous of anything so just get used to it. second, guys are like anything. its fun for a little but you have to keep it interesting for as long as possible to keep him interested
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happygolucky44
Joined: Mar 27, 09
Status Level: 3
2009-07-20 02:31:29
Mature men want what all others desire: A loving relationship built on a foundation of trust, honesty, and friendship.

Some will find themselves battling jealus feelings, this is true, but these will be fleeting in those mature enough to understand what they have.

What is sad is that in this society a mans attributes are not based on his actions, but his worth. What a man wants is often dictated by the demands of a society whos values are in money, and worth is in US dollars.

Perhaps I have a bias, but it seems that todays man is better off a midus, then a romeo. Often times for no other reason then to stay in the game.

Not to say that the desires of a man is not a life of unending joy, and revolation. But in this day, searching for the opposite of this type of man is difficult to find.

What I guy wants is what any self-respecting person who is open to selfless love wants. It may take form in various pathes, but I assure you, many men seek the same.

I feel that this has been presented in a roundabout way, and for any confusion I am sorry.

But I am tired of hearing what men, and then women want...If we would listen to our own selves without questioning ourselves we would see. It takes a steady hand, or unwavering mind to seek and find what one desires. And in some cases it takes times and patience. But in the end its worth it, ten times over.

What men want is a women.





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Muse
Joined: Jul 21, 09
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2009-07-31 18:55:11
men want sex...end of story.
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happygolucky44
Joined: Mar 27, 09
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2009-07-31 21:19:25
And sex is so easy to get if thats all you want....so why do men try to have relationships?
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happygolucky44
Joined: Mar 27, 09
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2009-07-31 21:20:00
And sex is so easy to get if thats all you want....so why do men try to have relationships?
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singingteacher
Joined: Apr 14, 09
Status Level: 3
2009-08-17 01:50:23
Sex comes with a price tag, as so many of us have found out. Too many times we generalize based off our collective past experiences. Saying men only want sex is like saying women only want chocolate! Real women want real men, those who are willing to work at a relationship and not run at the first sign of trouble. I am sorry, Muse, that you have only had bad experiences with the males in your life. They weren't real men. They were only boys playacting as men and have no character. Happy is right in pointing out that our society has diminished the importance of character and laid it at the alter of greed. We have lost what dignity and respect and honor mean for relationships and replaced those with one night stands and naredowell scenarios where no one ends up pleased.
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