what am i supposed to do now?

Thread Topic: what am i supposed to do now?

arwen
Joined: Feb 24, 09
Status Level: 3
2009-06-17 00:21:05
even if u do not find love again, there are those who will always love u, such as ur family and friends. cling to family, because it is in them that we have our core, our rock that will never falter. men are scum. get over it guys, u know u are. women are bi*ches, get over it ladies, u know we are. but every one of us has a true calling in life, and obviously that jerk u spent ur marriage wasnt it. if ur calling is to be single, embrace that, because that is what u were given and it is for a reason, but if life brings another man into the equation, treat him as if he were you, and u will recieve so many blessings back from him if he is the right one
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singingteacher
Joined: Apr 14, 09
Status Level: 3
2009-06-20 01:20:26
Arwen, so young to be so old...your knowledge is precious and probably came at a price.
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arwen
Joined: Feb 24, 09
Status Level: 3
2009-06-20 04:17:55
yes, it did.
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blandambition
Joined: Aug 10, 09
Status Level: 1
2009-08-10 19:53:12
jesus, how supportive everyone is. Round of hugs for the faithless
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singingteacher
Joined: Apr 14, 09
Status Level: 3
2009-08-17 02:02:39
we'd give you a hug if you ask nicely!
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blandambition
Joined: Aug 10, 09
Status Level: 1
2009-08-30 07:34:48
"we dated other people, i even ended up cheating on him when we dated but he did too,..."

Remember that this is the gist of the thread, packaged with a lot of self pity. Hugs are ok, but support just for support's sake is trivial. It's a semantic exercise without caring or understanding.
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singingteacher
Joined: Apr 14, 09
Status Level: 3
2009-09-07 11:38:13
sometimes we aren't supporting the original post but another. Don't trivialize our caring for your personal biases. Sometimes support is what people need most, not to be shown how wrong they were.
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DelightfullyWicked
Joined: Sep 8, 09
Status Level: 1
2009-09-08 03:04:49
No one cares how much you know until they know how much you care.

It's too bad arwen didn't ask for advice before she got into the relationship. That's always a good way to reduce the risk of a bad relationship.

Of course, in order for advice to be effective, one must be willing to listen to both sides: the side you want and the side you don't. So many people only listen to those people that agree with them. That's a good way to get hurt, and hurt bad.
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Nano
Joined: Sep 8, 09
Status Level: 1
2009-09-08 11:05:32
listen here blandambition, jesus isn't gonna f--- and get u pregnat if u want to, and all u can do his think bout him and nothing more
...im not an a-hole but ya'll always say that we cheat on ya'll but my ex cheat on me but i thought i would love her foreverr but i got over cuz i met this cool girl
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singingteacher
Joined: Apr 14, 09
Status Level: 3
2009-09-08 17:07:20
DelightfullyWicked, I agree that more people need to be willing to listen to both sides rather than only to the side that affirms what they already believe. Too bad more people don't hold to that precept...

Many people have a tendency to rationalize their problems rather than looking for solutions. Nano, you really didn't love the first girl if you "got over her cuz you met this cool girl". Love is more than that.
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Sexy Gal
Joined: Oct 4, 09
Status Level: 1
2009-10-04 12:02:07
who cares Arwin, itsa person, get over it
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criminal
Joined: Oct 10, 09
Status Level: 1
2009-10-10 13:00:32
heres what you do btch kill yourself whore that will take away the pain you'll feel better i got a good relationship and id never cheat flirt or anythin to my gilr but what you need to do is kill yourself
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cinchedup1976
Joined: Oct 12, 09
Status Level: 1
2009-10-12 15:52:21
Time is the cure all. You just have to find your self in a better place and see that you really dont need him. Everyone has a first but guess what 99.99% of "Our First" are just that a first. Stepping stone if you will. Take what you learned and move on to bigger and better things. I know it not as easy as it sounds. WHat you should really do is open your self up to the future and stop looking back on the past.
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eds
Joined: Nov 28, 09
Status Level: 1
2009-11-28 05:55:16
if you're really meant to be well you r... if u really meant to each other then whatever happens at the end of the day u'll be together...
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tini
Joined: Dec 3, 09
Status Level: 1
2009-12-03 04:51:30
You should get f---ed yourself infront of him
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